Thursday, May 16, 2013
A Lesson To Learn From Children
This week at Head Start, our classrooms are participating in the St. Jude's Trike-a-Thon. The Trike-a-Thon is a week long event dedicated to bicycle safety, as well as, an opportunity to raise money for the children at St. Jude's. Since we are a Head Start program and 90% of our families live at or below the poverty line, I did not have very high expectations for how much money we would raise. Regardless of that, it was still going to be a great opportunity to teach our children that there is always someone less fortunate than us that we can help.
Our goal for the Trike-a-Thon event was $200 and you can imagine my surprise when a child turned in her donation packet with a check for $160. A four year old raised $160 -- five of those dollars being from her own piggy bank. I couldn't help but tear up. She took to heart the lesson of helping those less fortunate.
So far, the children have raised close to $300 and I couldn't be more proud of our babies! It also got me thinking about how reserved I am with donating my money. If these families who are living paycheck to paycheck find even a few dollars to donate to the cause, why am I, a young professional making a good living, so quick to find any reason as to why I can't "afford" to donate?
Now, this doesn't mean that I need to give $160 a month to a charity I believe in. And it doesn't mean that I only need to give monitarily, because giving your time is just as important. But I do want to be better about supporting other organizations outside of the one I am working for.
I've been blessed beyond belief with the life I was born into, and I never forget that. That is why I chose to become a Social Worker and give my life to serving those less fortunate. I need to be better about giving both my time and my money. If a child who has nothing has the ability to give so freely, I have the ability to do the same.
So, I challenge you all to do the same. Give freely. Find something, a charity, an organization, that you're passionate about and donate your time or your money -- or both. Sometimes we think that our little contributions aren't making a difference, but they are. Even if one life is changed for the better, it was a success.
Labels:
Giving,
St. Jude's,
Trike-a-Thon
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
I'm A Hoarder
You guyssssss.....
Something really sad happened recently. I found this gorgeous orange/red Essie polish at the store and was so excited so get home and slap it all over my fingers. I got back to my lovely {actually really disgusting} apartment, turned on the Real Housewives of Orange County, and then it all hit me.
Don't I already own this color?
Why yes, yes I did. That's when I was forced to come to terms with my nail polish hoarding. I own 19 bottles of Essie polish. Which I think means I need one more to make it an even number, right? If the fact that I own 19 Essie polishes doesn't make you question my sanity, then the fact that those Essie nail polishes are only a fourth of my polish collection should.
But, since every girl needs a good polish collection {in my opinion} I thought I would share a few of my favorite Essie colors.
| Play Date |
| Hip-Anema |
| Butler Please |
| Stylenomics |
I could keep going on with my favorite Essie polishes, but then before you know it, I would have listed all 19. I think it's safe to say I need to seek nail polish counseling. Any recommendations on a good therapist?
What Essie polishes are your favorite?
Happy Wednesday!
Labels:
Essie,
nail polish
Wednesday, May 8, 2013
They Lie About Wedding Planning
You know how every says, "Wedding planning is so much fun! You get to make all of your fairytale dreams come true... blah blah blah." Well, guess what....
I know I'm not the only one who has come to hate wedding planning. Maybe if you're one of those lucky real life princesses who has all the money in the world for the most extravagant wedding planned by an uber organized wedding planner and you don't have a daily 9-5, you might enjoy wedding planning. But for the 95% of us who live in the real world....it kinda sucks!
Now, don't get me wrong, I am so so soooo excited to get married to my best friend, but this whole wedding planning stuff is stressful. So stressful, in fact, that Justin and I have been procrastinating like none other. I mean, hello, we're getting married in less than 4 months and we still haven't locked down a DJ!
I'm sure it's obvious that on my social work salary and Justin's baseball coach salary, we're as poor as poor can be. And while we're planning on a budget and getting pretty great deals, this shiz is still expensive. If I didn't hate planning so much, I would definitely become a wedding planner.
While we still have a lot of planning and little details to attend to, my top priority at this moment is booking a honeymoon in Mexico... a must. Who cares if the wedding looks a hot mess, at least we'll be soaking up the sun in my favorite country, afterwards. Well, and of course, we need a place to live after the wedding. I guess that's pretty important.
The one thing I've learned during this whole wedding planning ordeal: We plan weddings to impress those we invite. Since when do we need to have an extravagant party worth thousands of dollars in order to celebrate love? I don't need to spend $8,000 on food to make my wedding day the happiest day of my life. The amount of pressure 'society' puts on a bride to plan the perfect wedding just proves how much importance we put on materialism. While it is important to me for my guests to have fun and enjoy their night celebrating mine and Justin's marriage, I'm not going to spend a ridiculous amount of money. Those who will be attending our wedding will be there for the right reasons, and those who aren't... well see ya.
So all of you brides-to-be and wifeys, your advice is needed. With less than four months to go, what do Justin and I need to know in order to make the rest of this planning smooth sailing?
Happy Wednesday, lovlies!
They all lied.
I know I'm not the only one who has come to hate wedding planning. Maybe if you're one of those lucky real life princesses who has all the money in the world for the most extravagant wedding planned by an uber organized wedding planner and you don't have a daily 9-5, you might enjoy wedding planning. But for the 95% of us who live in the real world....it kinda sucks!
Now, don't get me wrong, I am so so soooo excited to get married to my best friend, but this whole wedding planning stuff is stressful. So stressful, in fact, that Justin and I have been procrastinating like none other. I mean, hello, we're getting married in less than 4 months and we still haven't locked down a DJ!
I'm sure it's obvious that on my social work salary and Justin's baseball coach salary, we're as poor as poor can be. And while we're planning on a budget and getting pretty great deals, this shiz is still expensive. If I didn't hate planning so much, I would definitely become a wedding planner.
While we still have a lot of planning and little details to attend to, my top priority at this moment is booking a honeymoon in Mexico... a must. Who cares if the wedding looks a hot mess, at least we'll be soaking up the sun in my favorite country, afterwards. Well, and of course, we need a place to live after the wedding. I guess that's pretty important.
The one thing I've learned during this whole wedding planning ordeal: We plan weddings to impress those we invite. Since when do we need to have an extravagant party worth thousands of dollars in order to celebrate love? I don't need to spend $8,000 on food to make my wedding day the happiest day of my life. The amount of pressure 'society' puts on a bride to plan the perfect wedding just proves how much importance we put on materialism. While it is important to me for my guests to have fun and enjoy their night celebrating mine and Justin's marriage, I'm not going to spend a ridiculous amount of money. Those who will be attending our wedding will be there for the right reasons, and those who aren't... well see ya.
So all of you brides-to-be and wifeys, your advice is needed. With less than four months to go, what do Justin and I need to know in order to make the rest of this planning smooth sailing?
Happy Wednesday, lovlies!
Labels:
wedding,
wedding lies,
wedding planning
Monday, April 29, 2013
An Announcement
If you think I'm going to tell you I'm preggo, you're only half right. I am currently preggo with a food baby -- that's what a weekend of birthday treats and birthday dinners will do to you. Also, this plate of mac and cheese I just devoured didn't help at all...
But there really is a pregnancy announcement I need to make. This girl right here will officially be an aunt this October! Now that all the important people (you know, family) know the big news, I can share with you all that my sister will be popping out a little one in 6 months! Since I found out, my mind has been reeling with all of the goodies I need to spoil my future neice or nephew with -- p.s. you heard it here, I'm convinced it's a girl.
Okay, I love my future niece/nephew, but I won't be spending $60 on a pair of moccasins for a child who will outgrow them in a matter of months. So, with these adorable mocs as inspiration, I will find a more afforadable pair for the nugget. They are so cute!
Every child needsa pair twelve pairs of adorable leggings. When I have children, they will live in them! This Etsy shop, littlefourclothing, has the most adorable printed leggings for the little one's in our lives.
But there really is a pregnancy announcement I need to make. This girl right here will officially be an aunt this October! Now that all the important people (you know, family) know the big news, I can share with you all that my sister will be popping out a little one in 6 months! Since I found out, my mind has been reeling with all of the goodies I need to spoil my future neice or nephew with -- p.s. you heard it here, I'm convinced it's a girl.
Okay, I love my future niece/nephew, but I won't be spending $60 on a pair of moccasins for a child who will outgrow them in a matter of months. So, with these adorable mocs as inspiration, I will find a more afforadable pair for the nugget. They are so cute!
Every child needs

Every little girl needs adorable flower headbands. If I have a niece, she will have millions. Even if my sister refuses to put flowers in her hair, she will always be wearing a headband when she's with me.
I am beyond excited for this new addition to our family and I can't wait to meet the little one! These next six months are going to be looooong.
All of you momma's, momma's-to-be, and aunties....what baby goodies do I need to get for my future niece or nephew?
Happy Monday, lovlies!
Tuesday, April 23, 2013
If I Were a Real Housewife
Riley and I took a little drive after Justin's baseball game around this gorgeous neighborhood. Beautifully built houses surrounded the bluest lake I've seen in these parts of Michigan. I immediately started daydreaming about what it would be like to live in that neighborhood with perfectly cut lawns and houses with rooms upon rooms.
Then I came home and watched the Original Gangsters of The Real Housewives -- that's The Real Housewives of OC for those of you who don't partake in such trash. I got to thinking. If I were a Real Housewife, what would my life look like?
Maybe a little something like this...
Justin and I would live in a big house with lots and lots of windows and stone detailing. Windows are really important to me -- the more natural light, the better.
We would have a pool in our backyard because if there's one thing I hate, it's laying out with a bunch of strangers around me. This girl needs to tan in private!
I would have the perfect white kitchen to cook up all sorts of meals. The more space, the better!
My closet would be an OCD person's dream. Neatly organized -- a place for everything and everything in it's place. If there is one thing that gets under my skin, it's a messy closet. Justin would have a matching closet, which means we would need to go on a major shopping spree to fill his up.
Inside my closet, near the best natural lighting obviously, would be my makeup table filled with endless amounts of makeup. It will be like my own personal Ulta. That right there is heaven!
We would have the most adorable children who are always dressed impeccably from the moment they are born. They'll also be amazing athletes. No doubt about that.
We would adopt a child -- or twelve -- from Africa. Actually, I might just turn into Angelina Jolie and adopt a child from every country.
We would take family vacations in Bora Bora at least twice a year -- once in the dead of Winter, and of course for Spring Break.
Welp, if that isn't a super materialistic list, then I don't know what is! If you were a Real Housewife, what would your life look like?
Then I came home and watched the Original Gangsters of The Real Housewives -- that's The Real Housewives of OC for those of you who don't partake in such trash. I got to thinking. If I were a Real Housewife, what would my life look like?
Maybe a little something like this...
Justin and I would live in a big house with lots and lots of windows and stone detailing. Windows are really important to me -- the more natural light, the better.
We would have a pool in our backyard because if there's one thing I hate, it's laying out with a bunch of strangers around me. This girl needs to tan in private!
I would have the perfect white kitchen to cook up all sorts of meals. The more space, the better!
My closet would be an OCD person's dream. Neatly organized -- a place for everything and everything in it's place. If there is one thing that gets under my skin, it's a messy closet. Justin would have a matching closet, which means we would need to go on a major shopping spree to fill his up.
Inside my closet, near the best natural lighting obviously, would be my makeup table filled with endless amounts of makeup. It will be like my own personal Ulta. That right there is heaven!
We would have the most adorable children who are always dressed impeccably from the moment they are born. They'll also be amazing athletes. No doubt about that.
We would adopt a child -- or twelve -- from Africa. Actually, I might just turn into Angelina Jolie and adopt a child from every country.
We would take family vacations in Bora Bora at least twice a year -- once in the dead of Winter, and of course for Spring Break.
Welp, if that isn't a super materialistic list, then I don't know what is! If you were a Real Housewife, what would your life look like?
Labels:
real housewife,
when I grow up
Monday, April 22, 2013
Meet Riley
Hi Blogland! My name is Riley. Mom also calls me Riles, Ry, or Little Man. I respond to any of them. Heck, I would respond if you called me anything -- I don't really know my own name yet. My mom took me home Friday night after a date night with Pops. They weren't planing on adopting me, but what can I say? I'm a cute little one. It was love at first sight.
I'm two months old and a mere 2 pounds, but I have energy for days. My big brother Charlie is afraid of me, even though he's at least 8 times bigger than me. It's probably because he's a cat. I try to play with him, but he just runs away and watches me from the stairs.
| I'm sure he'll warm up to me eventually... |
I love taking walks. My little legs move at the speed of light, but I still don't get very far. I made it all the way to end of the street and back last night -- five whole driveways! I took a looooooong nap after that one.
Speaking of naps, they're my favorite -- except for trying to eat my own poop (I'll grow out of it). I take some bomb naps. They're so great, I even drool.... all over Mom's arms. Sometimes, I even fall asleep sitting up.
Most of all, I'm happy to have a new family to love on me. Life is good as a puppy. Y'all best keep your eyes open for pictures of me, because who doesn't love puppies? You'll follow Mom on Instagram if you know what's best for you.
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Thursday, April 18, 2013
Glitter and Chevron and Pink... Oh My!
I found the above image while perusing Pinterest and I said to myself, "Self, let's try this!" I usually stick to a solid color when I do my nails, but this fun mani was something I couldn't pass up. So I grabbed the goods and got to work.
What you need:
Gelous Advance Nail Gel Coat or a normal base coat (go here to see how I use this product in a mani)
Out The Door Top Coat
A color polish -- I chose Essie's Watermelon
White polish -- I used Essie's Marshmellow
Black polish -- I used Nicole by OPI in Hard Kourt Fashionista from the Kardashian Kolors line
Chevron nail decals
Loose glitter.
Steps:
1) After using a normal base coat or the Gelous system on your middle fingers, paint the nails with your white polish. You want to make sure to do these nails first so that they have plenty of time to dry before adding the chevron patten.
2) I chose to paint my pinkies, pointer fingers and thumbs next. Make sure to do a base coat (or Gelous system) before applying the nail color. Finish off these nails with a top coat.
3) Now, time for the glitter! I used left over loose glitter I bought at Michaels. Paint your ring finger on one hand with a base coat, or two coats of the Gelous Advance Gel Coat. Quickly, sprinkle loose glitter onto the nail before the base coat dries. Gently press the glitter into the polish and brush off excess. Seal the glitter with two coats of a top coat or two coats of the Gelous. Repeat on your other hand.
4) Chevron time. You have two options here. You can either cut the chevron nail decals to fit your nail and seal it with two layers of top coat or you can do what I did. I've found that the nail decals peel off very easily, no matter how many layers of top coat I use. After placing the nail decals onto my nail, I took black polish and painted over the entire nail. Then, very slowly and gently, pull the decals off your nail. Let dry and seal with a top coat.
And there you have it! The final result...
TIPS:
- Make sure the black polish is completely dry before applying a top coat. As you can see, I thought I had given my nails enough time to dry, but did not which resulted in the polish bleeding a bit. Oops!
- This mani takes time. Don't rush it! And make sure you have plenty of time. It's a great project while watching a movie.
- Give the white polish at least an hour to dry. If you don't, the polish will come off when you peel the decals off.
So, what do you think?! Is this a mani you would rock?
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